Secret Message by Arnold Schwarzenegger

Arnold Alois Schwarzenegger was one of my favorite actor during my childhood. He used to be my hero, noted for his lead role in such films as Conan the Barbarian and The Terminator.

Currently serving as the 38th Governor of the state of California, yet still handsome and admirable.

Though I don't really cares about what happen in California, but Arnold Schwarzenegger made another epic.
In such an ordinary formal letter to the "Members of California State Assembly", a secret message (circled in red), intentionally or not, is eyes striking and exciting people!



In many circumstance of life, its the voice we usually dare not or feel rude to express, yet, it is truly what we thinking about and perhaps beneath for so long...

Now on, "Arnnie's letter" can be a polite substitution.. Impressive creativity huh?!

"Sincerely, Arnold Schwarzenegger"

Coca-cola in Mini

Coca-cola Co. will launch in December a sleek 90-calorie mini can instead of the standard 140, in Washington, D.C., New York City, and a roll-out to the rest of the United States is expected to be underway by March 2010.

Obviously, this smaller packaging has lesser calories and the price will be lower than the ordinary one. How far it will influence into the market?
As they claim, this kind of packaging is designed as part of the efforts to provide more choices and information to health-conscious consumers. But, I wonder does a health conscious consumer really drink coke to maintain or improve their healthy life?

Nevertheless, I do love coke. For me, yes, I will prefer this sleek mini coke once a while when hot weather, having the value meal of McDonald's or other special occasions. The standard size of coke now is a little too much for me, so cool when drinking under the hot sun, but rather uncomfortable when finish the whole can, the stomach is full of gas...then the next you know...urhhh...

Come to health issue, we know that obesity has been affecting younger and younger generation, and one of the factor is the unbalanced diet and junk food. Coke is one of the favorite drinks for youngsters. High sugar and high carbohydrate are the contents, but still people demanding for it.

Is this smaller mini coke a better offer for those calorie concern consumer and as an effort to control the healthy diet of young?
Yes, now you have a choice for smaller portion.
However, this can be a marketing attempt to penetrate larger group of consumers, especially the younger and innocent! Because it is smaller and cheaper, so, the kids with their few pennies pocket money can buy it themselves, without the knowledge of parents. Advertisement, cute and stylist outlook, and word of mouth, drinking soft drink is a lifestyle. So do kids following this kind of culture. Who cares about nutrition, diet, obesity, heart disease and health awareness?

These questions shall leave for those parents and I shall go for a can of coke from fridge now...

Women and sex

Nowadays, more and more women are raising up their needs of satisfactory and enjoyment in sex. However, sexual dysfunction for both male and female is still an issue which is so shame to be arisen and hence become stressful, affecting the living of both partners. Sexual problems affect around 50% of women and become more common as women get older. Most of the women especially Asian dare not voice out their problems because they do not want to disappoint their partner. Even in developed country, a recent study revealed nearly half of all sexually active women in Australia never, or rarely, achieve orgasm during sex, and 63% of women are in fact ‘faking’ orgasms with their partners.

With women in regards to sexual activity, there are an awful lot of women who have never climaxed in their life and also a lot of women who are having great difficulty climaxing either through self-stimulation or through sexual activity with their partner. The reasons for sexual dysfunction can be both physical and psychological factors, including a woman’s relationship with her partner. The common dysfunction including loss of desire, loss of arousal, problems with orgasm and pain during sex.


Loss of desire
Loss of desire, or lack of sex drive, can have a range of physical or psychological causes, including heart disease, diabetes, depression, relationship problems, hormone disorders, excessive alcohol and drug use, tiredness, and previous sexual experience that has been traumatic.

Besides, there are many women in relationships who are distressed by the fact that they feel their relationship is fine, they feel very warmly towards their partner but they have no interest in sex anymore and they get no pleasure from sex anymore.

Sex drive can also fall if a woman’s natural testosterone levels drop; testosterone is produced in the ovaries and adrenal glands, so levels can drop if these are removed or not functioning properly.

Difficult to achieve Orgasm
Some women don’t have to have an orgasm to enjoy sex, but inability to reach orgasm can be a problem for some women and their partners.

These can be divided into two types: primary (when a woman has never had an orgasm) and secondary (when a woman has had an orgasm in the past but cannot now).

Few reasons why a woman difficult to achieve orgasm includes:-
• Lack of knowledge about sex
• Lack of stimulation
• Relationship problems
• Depression

Pain during sexual intercourse
Pain during sexual intercourse is common after the menopause as estrogen levels fall and the vagina feels dry. This can affect a woman’s desire for sex. Sexual pain disorders include dsypareunia, vaginismus and non-coial sexual pain disorders.

Sexual arousal disorders
Sexual arousal disorder is generally defined as the inability to attain or maintain typical responses to sexual arousal.

The symptoms of the disorder include:
• Lack of vaginal lubrication
• Lack of vaginal dilation or lengthening
• Decreased genital tumescence or swelling
• Decreased genital or nipple sensation

In Malaysia, Women with sexual arousal disorder were found to be significantly higher in the groups of: age 45 years old and above; married more than 14 years; having more than 3 children; from lower academic group; having husbands aged 55 years; having less sexual intercourse (less than 1 – 2 times a week); and at post-menopausal state.

If you face the difficulty above, please don't be shy to seek for treatment...
In Australia, Women’s Sexual Health Program has been launched to help women who experience sexual dysfunction issues. A lady who is 53 and she has been married for 23 and hasn’t had an orgasm in 15 years. It is sad because she loves her husband and they were growing apart because of it. After being on the program for nine months she and her husband booked a second honeymoon.
The professional could helps.

Does old age stop the sexual life?

According to a new study carried out by researchers at the University of Chicago in U.S, men and women are having sex well into their 80s. What they found was that over 75% of the men and women who were between the age of 75 and 85 wanted to have sex, and were extremely interested in continuing to have it.

The basic belief in the past was that most men and women had sex when they were young, and as they aged, it would begin to stop. This is apparently not the case though, as it has been found that as long as you are healthy, the drive is still there. The only factors sound to actually cut interest would be medications, obesity, diabetes, etc. Getting old in itself is not a factor that can stop people from thirst of sex.

Secret and Religion

The Secret is currently a famous modern reading all about the Law of Attraction and the order of the universe... the Secret has become a hot topic being practice by many readers and so as received a lot of criticism.

In fact, I don't have any inevitable evidence about the existence of Law of Attraction.

I don't know how it works, what is the mechanism of Law of Attraction...it is placed within scientific fact and naive...we are lack of capability to solve...

If you would to argue with me whether The Secret is really works or it is just a fraud, I would say I don't know...but I believe...

Because of "I believe", hence, every goodwill happened to me, Law of Attraction is given the credit.

Every creature in our world, the trees, forest, building, bridge, animals, human, everything we see, we know and also those that we don't know... are all in the order of universe... Do you ever experience good luck, or bad luck, no taxi, raining, forget the door key, cell phone no battery... all happened in one day, is it simply just  a coincident?
There are a lot of things happened that we can't explain... indeed, human is only a fragile tiny creature... it is not surprising there are so many things out there that our current technology or science couldn't solve...isn't it?
Power is not only what we can see.

So as in term of religion, its the God...

Different religions has different believes about the appearance of God. Some in a puppet, stone, the sun, or even a piece of wood. Nevertheless, there is one similarity, religious believe the power of God which can decide everything. Therefore we pray to the God, ask for mercy, forgiveness, peace, health, wealth and everything we desired.

It is all about your thought

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Homosexual Ambassador

Obama picks openly gay lawyer for ambassadorship 
By PHILIP ELLIOTT, Associated Press Writer Philip Elliott, Associated Press Writer
 

WASHINGTON – President Barack Obama said Wednesday he planned to nominate an openly gay lawyer as the U.S. ambassador to New Zealand and Samoa. If confirmed by the Senate, David Huebner would become the third openly gay ambassador in U.S. history and the first pick by this administration. In a statement released from the White House, Obama said he looked forward to working with Huebner and is confident he will represent the United States well in the Pacific region.

Huebner is based in Shanghai, where he handles international arbitration and mediation cases for a U.S. firm. A graduate of Princeton University and Yale Law School, he is also the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation's general counsel and previously served on the group's board.

He also has chaired the California Law Revision Commission, served as president of the Los Angeles Quality and Productivity Commission and taught at the University of Southern California's Gould School of Law.

Obama's announcement is a gesture just days before he speaks to a gay rights fundraising dinner on Saturday and gay activists march on Washington on Sunday.

Obama's relationship with gay activists has been rocky since his election. Gays and lesbians objected to the invitation of evangelist Rev. Rick Warren's to participate in Obama's inauguration because of Warren's support for repealing gay marriage in California. Obama responded by having Episcopalian Bishop V. Gene Robinson, the denomination's first openly gay bishop, participate at another event.

As president, Obama hasn't taken any concrete steps urging Congress to rescind the Clinton-era "don't ask, don't tell" policy that allows gays and lesbians to serve in the military as long as they don't disclose their sexual orientation or act on it. Some former chairmen of the Joint Chiefs of Staff have acknowledged the policy is flawed.

The office of the current chairman, Adm. Mike Mullen, signed off on a journal article that called for lifting the ban, arguing that the military is forcing thousands of military members to live dishonest lives.

Obama also pledged during the campaign to work for repeal of the Defense of Marriage Act, which limits how state, local and federal bodies can recognize partnerships and determine benefits. But lawyers in his administration defended the law in a court brief. White House aides said they were only doing their jobs to back a law that was already on the books.

Officials said Obama's slow and incremental approach to the politically charged issues has produced some gains.

"The president made commitments on those issues — not just, quite frankly, in a presidential race but ran on some of those commitments in a Senate race," White House spokesman Robert Gibbs said. "They are commitments that are important to him and he is intent on making progress on those issues and is working with the Pentagon to ensure, at least in 'don't ask, don't tell,' that we make progress on it."

Obama has expanded some federal benefits to same-sex partners, but not health benefits or pension guarantees. He has allowed State Department employees to include their same-sex partners in certain embassy programs available to opposite-sex spouses.

On Wednesday, Gibbs said the administration was working with the Office of Personnel Management to expand those benefits.

But that remains far short of his campaign rhetoric.

"At its core, this issue is about who we are as Americans," Obama said a 2007 statement on gay issues. "It's about whether this nation is going to live up to its founding promise of equality by treating all its citizens with dignity and respect."

Sex Harmony

Sex, especially for Asian is a secretive word..very shy to be request or discuss. However, we can't deny sexuality is an integral part of being human. Love, affection, and sexual intimacy contribute to healthy relationships and individual well-being.

Therefore, sexuality health and satisfaction is so important for both physical and spiritual fitness. Just like healthy balance diet, human, either you are man, women, young or old, we all are equally deserved the rights to enjoy sex. Therefore, a healthy sexuality practice or sexual education should be a must to gain a positive perception of healthy sex life as well as to hinder sexual abuse.

But along with the positive aspects of our human sexuality, there also are illnesses that can affect our sexual health. In addition, irresponsible sexual behaviors can result in undesirable consequences, including unwanted pregnancies and sexually transmitted diseases.

Sex is not just about kung fu on bed, but also social, physical and psychological needs. It shall be fun for both partners. Therefore, before we proceed to the enjoyment, we shall always remember and aware of the safety and responsible of healthy sex practice to avoid unwanted suffers.